Meeting Jesus Face to Face.
Story by Randy Grathen.
(Author’s note) To put this story in context, you need to know it was 1965, in the one parish I attended as a kid in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Everything I wrote in the story is my personal experience, not an indictment of the church in general.
I grew up Catholic. Even went to Catholic school. Had Nuns for teachers.
One of the first things I learned about Catholicism was that it was based on a lot of rules. Not just the Ten Commandments, but the priests and nuns had a bunch more that weren’t written down anywhere. You learned about a new one each time you broke one. We were always trying to measure up to a bunch of unwritten rules and standards, trying not to sin too much and doing good works to make up the difference. There were categories of sins too. Mortal sins, Venial sins, Sins of Omission and so on. Going to ‘Confession’ was one way to wipe the slate clean for a moment or two, and saying a few extra “Hail Mary’s” and “Our Father’s” didn’t hurt either. You could bankroll them for when you did something really bad.
We were told God was sitting on His throne waiting to judge each one of us when we died. Our hope was that on the ‘Scale of Judgement’ our GOOD DEEDS DONE, tipped it in our favor over TOTAL SINS COMMITTED.
We would compare ourselves to other kids we knew, and tried to decide whether we were not as bad as they were as if God graded our salvation on a curve. “I’m a good person” was our answer to whether we were going to go to Heaven or Hell. As if being good was enough. It was always about staying out of hell more than knowing we had secured our place in Heaven. We never knew for sure if our goodness would outweigh our badness at the time of our death, so, if we weren’t bad enough to go to hell, but didn’t do enough good things to get into heaven in our present condition, the Catholic Church invented a place called Purgatory. It was hell with an exit. Apparently Jesus’s death on the cross wasn’t enough to totally erase all our sins. So, once we paid our penalty, spending some arbitrary length of time in hell depending on how many sins we had to make up for, we finally got to go to heaven.
I decided that if I wanted to get right with God, I’d have to clean myself up and get my act together. I made a mental checklist of just some of the things I would have to do to please Him. Stop swearing, quit drinking, smoking, lying, getting angry, cheating, stealing, taking the Lord’s name in vain, and start going to church. When I looked at my To-Do list it was down-right depressing. Maybe a few more Hail Mary’s would help. My Catholic upbringing still had me thinking in terms of “working” my way into heaven.
The word Repentance means to turn around or turn away from our transgressions and ask for forgiveness. I had been walking away from God for the first 23 years of my life. I left a long trail of sins in my wake. To turn around and walk all the way back to His throne, throw myself at His feet and beg forgiveness would be a very long arduous journey indeed.
But then a most remarkable thing happened. It was during the time of what was known as the Jesus-freak Movement in the early seventies. Street evangelist were everywhere.
“Hey buddy, are you saved?”
“Do you know where you’re going to spend eternity when you die?”
Hey man, Jesus loves you!”
Just keep walking – Eyes straight ahead – Don’t make eye contact, but I inadvertently did.
I was single, in the Air Force and headed to the Airman’s Club for a beer. Then I hear this… “Come here, I want to show you something. look at this…”
It was April 1973. His name was Bruce. He opened up his King James Bible and read the most quoted verse in the bible. It is the starting point for everyone who is ready to concede defeat and stop running away.
John 3:16, says. For God so loved the world that He gave His only-begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. I finally understood that we are all sinners, and no amount of good works would save me. I realized it wasn’t how far down the path of destruction I had walked, because I was doomed from birth. I was bound for hell before I ever took my first step. I was born with a sin-nature. It was in my DNA and there wasn’t a thing I could do to save myself. But here is the good news…
God showed me no matter how far I had traveled on the road to Hell, no matter how long I had my back turned on God, He doesn’t sit on his throne waiting for us to come crawling back bowing, whimpering and groveling and begging for forgiveness, and one more chance. When I finally stopped walking away, and turned around, there He stood. Jesus had been following me my entire life. Waiting. I turned and stepped into his open arms. He wrapped His arms around me and said, “let’s go home son.”
Salvation is not about rules, it’s about a relationship with our Savior.
We are made “new” the moment we surrender, step into Jesus’ arms, accept His forgiveness, and declare Him our Lord. We are forgiven. We are set free from the wages of sin – death. He paid the price in advance. All I had to do was accept His gift.
Psalm 103: verses 11 thru 13 says, “For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His loving devotion for those who fear Him. As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.“
And in Isaiah chapter 1, verse 1, “Come now, let us settle the matter,” says the LORD. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.
Finally, for those of you who knew me between 1973 through the mid 90s, I hope you weren’t taking notes, unless you were noting all the things to not do while claiming to be a Christian. I was a very poor example. I apologize!
May the grace of the Lord and the peace that surpasses all understanding be with you always.
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